skills kit

executive function coaching

one-to-one online coaching. the first chat is free.

there's a name for it

your brain runs eleven cognitive skills to plan, start, focus, switch and finish things. they're called executive function. schools don't teach them and most people never find out they exist.

when they're weak, nobody says "that's an executive function thing". they say lazy. scatty. chaotic. could do better. hear it enough and you start to agree with them.

the skills can be trained, at any age, from any starting point. that changes the label as well as the problem. no new personality required.

1planning and prioritisation

what needs doing, what matters most, and in what order

2organisation

using systems to keep on top of things

3time management

knowing where your time goes, estimating it and using it well

4task initiation

starting without procrastinating

↑ if you're reading this instead of doing the thing

5sustained attention

staying focused (even when hard)

6working memory

holding information in your head while you use it

7response inhibition

thinking before you act

8emotional regulation

managing your feelings (and what to do about them)

9cognitive flexibility

adapting when plans or situations change

10goal-directed persistence

having and sticking to a goal

11metacognition

noticing your own patterns, and thinking about your thinking

that's the lot. everyone has all eleven, at different levels.

what actually happens

  1. 1a free 20 minute chat. no pitch. you tell me what isn't working.
  2. 2we work out which of the eleven skills are involved. there's a free quiz if you'd rather start there.
  3. 3an hour a week. we build things that fit the life you actually have, then check whether they held, and whether you're getting where you want to.
  4. 4the aim is that after a while you don't need me, because you know how your brain works now.
alex with his arms up under a large street clock
time management. but aesthetic.
alex smiling in front of wooden doors

who i work with

adults, mostly. freelancers, creatives, people in jobs with no structure and people in jobs with too much of it. late diagnosed with something, undiagnosed, or not fussed about a diagnosis either way.

i also work with teenagers and their parents, and with schools and workplaces. more on that.

what i don't do: children under 11, telling you how to parent, therapy, or sessions in the middle of the night uk time (i'm better awake). if that's what you need, i can usually point you at someone good.
one from a client
"After my ADHD diagnosis, medication helped, but I still needed support with coordinating life and prioritising in a way medication alone couldn't. Having an hour to work out the small changes that help me navigate my week is having a compound effect. I wholeheartedly recommend it."
adult client, 1:1 adhd coaching
£60 an hour, or £399 for a block of eight. a limited number of reduced rate places for people who need them. the first chat is free and there's no obligation after it.